Making Room for Memories

Last night, I attended the WIFT Reception @ TIFF.  It was a great evening of intelligent women, cocktails and delicious food.  I really had an amazing time.

But...

TIFF parties are about being red carpet ready.  I love to do my hair, put on some make-up and wear something fabulous.  As many other urban moms, I had a collection of carefully curated designer pieces for just such an occasion.  That's right, I had a collection.

About a week ago, I started to plan out my TIFF outfit.  As I culled through the designer digs that I hadn't worn since before I was pregnant, I came to the shocking realization that things had just...shifted.  Even though I have achieved my pre-baby weight, dresses weren't sitting right on my hips.  Shoes were a half size too tight.  I was stunned.

I searched the internet for answers and learned that many women are in the same boat.  The pregnancy hormones that loosen the joints and ligaments in your pelvis and feet (among other things) in preparation for birth will often result in permanent changes to your body post-baby.  What?!?!

Don't get me wrong - I think I look pretty good.  But I couldn't help but feel a little sad that these last relics of my single days would never be worn again.  My closet was full of memories - dancing til dawn, romantic getaways, promotions - and I was surprised by just how emotional the idea of letting these things go was for me.

Then my daughter walked into the room to show me her latest trick and I laughed to myself.  It was just stuff and I have a whole host of new memories to add to my old ones.  My curvier hips and very supportive feet are a wonderful reminder of that.  So I cleaned out my closet and sussed out some local consignment shops.  A little cash to go along with new memories never hurt anyone.